Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Parents and Media!

I had a PTM with my child's teacher recently. Amongst many things, what we discussed was that Kanu , my daughter sees lots of TV and lots of cartoons including Shinchen that I do not like! Shinchen is what the teacher proscribed completely!

Come to think of it, as a parent of growing kids, I can feel nothing but hassled by the fact that I need to make serious efforts to control the media consumption of my kids. Many parents will agree that our media is getting increasingly prurient by the day. From the time, a child switches on the TV , he or she is exposed to all kinds of indecent words, actions and scenes.

One of the realities about the reality shows especially the Dance ones is that they make it a point to keep the women participants as little clothed as they can, the so called item numbers leave little to imagination, the cartoon shows teach a lot of bad-tameezi.

Radio is better even though I have heard some RJs whose talk can best be classified as 'Phooharh'.. but Radio as a medium is much less popular than TV. Still there are many times when you hear a RJ trying to talk 'sexy'unnecessarily. This is because the poor guy thinks thats the only way to be popular!

Print is also not behind. From frequent so called Sexual revolution surveys that scream scandalous findings to printing pictures in the daily newspapers that would otherwise would have place in porn magazines,the effort is to bring adult stuff daily in your home, without your permission and perhaps with disastrous consequences.

I have worked with media. I know all about the "noble objective" of broadbasing the societal mind! The only mantra in play is Show what sells! The logical culmination of this thinking is also interesting and frightening..Imagine TV showing porn films at prime hours and newspapers becoming a "Debo" just because that is more lucrative - revenue wise.

Self censorship looks a possible way out.. but the violations in order to get a quick rise in TRPs and readerships will be far and frequent. What are the other ways?

Lets form a parents of growing kids forum that acts as a pressure group in matters like this. Are there any precedences anywhere else in the world?

What about a Parent networking site? Will it work..there we will discuss all things related to kids say from nursery admissions to media overkills! It may fetch us some millions also :-).